The clock chimes midnight. The fireworks dance across the night sky. People hold their drinks in the air and shout and cheer to welcome in the new year. It’s the start of something fresh and new, and the ideal moment for us to make resolutions and promises to ourselves to make this year the best year ever.
Although keeping fit and losing weight are amongst the most popular resolutions we make, we need to remember that we’re making these vows for us and not just to please others. We often neglect ourselves when making these promises as we focus a lot on what others think and sometimes forget about ourselves and what makes us happy.
This year, why not make a resolution to enjoy every moment in the bedroom? Whether it be self-pleasure, pleasure with a partner, or even pleasure with several others, make this year the year for you and your intimacy. For too long we have been trying to please others. Let’s be selfish and take back the pleasure we want, need and crave!
A new year is a great time to start experimenting with new ideas and concepts that you’ve never tried before. Whether it’s exploring different positions, trying out a new fetish or taking your fun outside of the bedroom and enjoying it in an environment you’ve never done it in before, it’s an ideal time to find out what else makes you tick.
Be daring and try something that is maybe slightly outside of your usual activities. Push yourself to get closer to your most inner desires and find out how sensual and erotic it can really be. Remember to stop if you are feeling uncomfortable though, as you may not enjoy it as much as you had hoped if you push too far. But enjoy the experience and thrill you’ll get from discovering something new.
If you’re struggling, set yourself an aim. We are all different, so give yourself an aim that is realistic and achievable (and above all, pleasurable!) for you. Work up to the aim at your own pace, not too fast that you struggle, but just enough to enjoy the experience. Remember that trying something new in the bedroom is a sexual journey that you’ll be embarking upon, and it may lead you down many other side paths, so feel free to wander and make the most of anything that attracts your curiosity or attention.
A great way to begin is by trying a lubricant that you have never used before. Although this is a small step, you may be surprised at just how much a lubricant can change the sensations of intercourse or masturbation, and it may alter the way you play in future, allowing for more pleasurable and enjoyable sex.
Using lubricants specifically designed for certain aspects of sex can greatly increase things like stamina, sensation and enjoyment. LuvLoob includes a selection of natural based lubricants in their range, targeted towards things like vaginal dryness and friction and lubricants specifically formulated for sensitive intimate areas, giving the range a clever and interesting spin on the personal moisturizer market. Rather than straight forward water-based chemical formulas, LuvLoob’s products are natural and will help your body to “sing” during sex, meaning you’ll be at your peak during the act of love!
If you’re used to water-based lubricants, why not try an oil-based lubricant? If you’ve never performed oral sex, why not take the plunge and choose a flavoured natural lubricant from the Luvloob range to ease you in gently? And if you’re finding sex is just too hot, chill things down with a naturally formulated cooling lubricant.
Although changing your lubricant may not seem like the biggest change you’ll ever make, you’ll be surprised at just how much of a difference you’ll notice, especially if you’ve never tried that type of lubricant before.
New Year, New You! That’s what they say, right?
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